There is a fandom survey going around, which you will recognise by the huge banner people are posting for it. DO NOT TAKE IT.
You can read comments here for how problematic it is, and their mission statement is here, which I am kicking myself for not reading before taking the survey.
Their mission is to prove hardwired gender differences. How on earth is that possible? Fandom is mostly women! How are they going to get enough men to make such a comparison? And their questions are so loaded and full of assumptions and some of them have no answers that don't force you to choose what they want you to choose, that either you have to skip the question (which I didn't even know was a choice) or lie in order to proceed!
It's a badly-designed survey. It's a heavily-biased survey. Even if you agree with their mission statement, you shouldn't take the survey because it's a piece of shit survey. Any survey that requires you to lie to proceed is a bad survey (and since there is nothing that says you can skip a question and still proceed, many people will indeed lie in order to be able to move on).
August 31 2009, 03:40:08 UTC 2 years ago Edited: August 31 2009, 03:45:33 UTC
On the other hand, I'm loving how many comments they're getting that are telling them how unscientific this whole thing is. :Dv
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August 31 2009, 05:49:05 UTC 2 years ago Edited: August 31 2009, 05:50:08 UTC
I'm not disagreeing with your basic point -- that m/m sex is not some magically different sort of thing; that quite a few writers of m/m *are* men, and even women can use what they already know in writing an m/m sex scene -- all good points! But I do think research is a good idea for female-bodied writers writing sex from a male-bodied POV, even if "research" is just finding a guy friend and asking him :D. I mean, I've had plenty of vanilla sex, but if I were writing BDSM I'd feel the need to research the hell out of it even though in that case the parts are all the same as in the sex I'm used to having.
(And I know this is quite OT to the original post. *slinks away*)
August 31 2009, 05:55:05 UTC 2 years ago
I mean, to take it to a really extreme example, if I go to 4chan or something and browse through drawings of girls whose nipples are like penises, I don't honestly think that the guys who drew those pictures think that's what nipples are like. But they get off on dick nipples.
Porn is not always realistic. In fact, it's probably rarely realistic. It really bothers me that when such unrealistic porn is written by women, it's assumed to be because they're too stupid to know better.
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Which fic (one assumes erotic) would I most like to act out? LOLWUT?
August 31 2009, 10:49:22 UTC 2 years ago
I had a lot of trouble with the survey just from the assumptions in the questions and the fact that so many of them had no applicable answer for me, so I was annoyed at it just from a "gah, this is badly designed!" standpoint. But then learning more about why they made the survey, blech.
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Huh?
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You're kidding me. No, I know you're not, but you're kidding me.
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